This is the one thing I wish someone could've articulated more clearly for me. I had dear friends struggling with infertility, miscarriage, child loss, but before losing my own sweet babe, I couldn't fathom WHY they would still try to have another baby after all that pain.
Was it just all in their heads? Were they torturing themselves with intrusive thoughts of guilt and shame?
In this video I talk about what I discovered after seeing a newborn in a restaurant a few days ago.