If you ask anyone who's encountered infertility, they'll probably tell you the exact same thing:
There's so much we didn't know.
Infertility is a diagnosis no one wants, and no one wants to talk about. At least, I know I felt like talking about it would make it more possible for the infertility goblins to come find me.
As part of National Infertility Awareness Week, I want to introduce you to a term I discovered last summer:
"secondary infertility."
This is infertility that shows up AFTER you've become pregnant successfully without any medical interventions like IUI, IVF or medical boosters like ovulation shots. This means that for some reason, your body was able to get pregnant once (or many times) before, but now something has changed, and it's just not happening.
I've been pregnant twice in my life. And both times it was "like clockwork." We tried once the first time and were pregnant. We tried once the second time and were pregnant. Both times felt like miracles because I'm intimately acquainted with my friends' infertility journeys. I knew then what I know now: it's a goddamn miracle to get pregnant.
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