Why this writer is saying goodbye to social media
/A few months ago I took a sabbatical from social media. It was on the heels of being diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and learning that I have been trotting through this world with, among many other things, "low registration." Which is basically a way to say that sensory inputs—lights, sounds, touches, sensations—don't register in my brain until I am about an inch away from being overwhelmed.
This helped explain a lot about my daily life and why I have instinctively backed away from a lot of "normal" socialization over the years that I had once felt was necessary in order to be accepted. The reality is that things that might not bother you in the slightest silently pile up and up and up until they push me over the edge. And then I feel like everything is much too big, loud, confusing and, occasionally, even frightening.
So I had to start thinking about "sensory inputs" in more granular ways, with an eye to catching the potential for being overwhelmed (and then put out of commission for a few days). That's initially why social media got the boot. And I've discovered a lot since then—mainly that it's time to say goodbye for a handful of reasons.
I've learned that my brain doesn't work with social media in casual ways.
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